Chris, Thank you for your kind words. Although these irrational thoughts can get the best of me at times, you are right.
L, Thank you for your reply! Yes it is very comforting to know someone else is feeling the same way. Most of my friends have never gone through this type of thing so to actually talk to someone who has is really amazing. Thank you for your tips, It is definitely a daily struggle right now but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I also wish you the best with your journey, thanks again!
Hi Alexandria,sometimes things don’t work out the way u want them to,I will say to forgive and move on not for anyone else but for ur own peace of mind bcoz it takes less energy to love and forgive than to stay angry and hold a grudge.and also if that person deserved u he won’t have ever leave u alone.don’t isolate yourself,share your feelings with people u genuinely care about and u will b back to urself where ur true power lies.after the darkness of night the bright day comes.its only a step of courage that cr.sandeep
He only lives around the corner from me so it makes me feel yuk that my whole relationship with him was all lies
‘ Literally, the second we broke up he was dating this girl I had weird vibes from… I was so heartbroken. I kept asking, “How can you just throw away 2 years like it means nothing to you?” I was being a huge social media creep and couldn’t stop looking and comparing. Your situation totally resonates with me.
But I have good news – those feelings will go away with time and you will realize that you are SO happy you aren’t with him anymore. You will also realize that your relationship with him has helped you learn about yourself and also what you DO want out of a relationship. So when Mr. Right comes along, you may realize, “Wow, I’m glad I’m not with So-and-so and I’m glad I learned something from that experience.” That’s one way I looked at the positive, and it really helped ?? Continue reading “I had nearly the exact thing happen to me with my first ‘love”